Feathers & Floggers 101 Workshop in Feb 2014!

Feathers & Floggers 101 Workshop in Feb 2014!

    BDSM: Bondage, domination & submission, discipline, mastery & slavery, and sadism & masochism. This is the world of kinky play; a world of personal growth, intimacy, release, pleasure and yes, pain. Feathers and Floggers is our brand new workshop which enhances your understanding of Authentic Body Communication. Quite literally we take you through […]

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Femininity…

Femininity…

Is not something One applies in the mirror Or Washes off Before one sleeps At night…         Poetry By Indigene Inserted Pic by: fineartamerica.com Featured Pic by feminspire.com

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All you need is love?

This is an amazing piece that was sent to me today by one of the ctrl-Alt-sex team. Please check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCoFoKvfc6Y. Awesome thought experiment to help people understand what it’s like living and loving for homosexual kids. Send me your thoughts…    

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Intersex...just as delicious

Intersex…just as delicious

By Dean Peters I recently attended a workshop at OUT in Pretoria. OUT is an organisation that advocates for LGBT rights, provides support services to LGBT people, and tries to educate the broader community about “sexual minorities”. The topic of the workshop was intersex, and was facilitated by Sally Gross and Eugene van Rooyen from Intersex SA. […]

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The Basics

The Basics

Everyone has a “code”, right? Some moral guidelines by which they live. This is not that list. Instead, I humbly submit what you might call the bar you have to be as tall as to ride the roller-coaster of love, sex and connection. 1. No means no and ladies rule. No exceptions barring prior negotiations, while of a […]

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Poly Palooza JHB

Poly Palooza JHB

Choice 80’s music, shots and the setting Summer sun behind us – the last event on our 2013 calendar came to a warm close in many senses. We were a small gathering of ethical non-monogamists from Joburg, Grahamstown, Durban and the States. How and why we found ourselves sitting around a table on the deck […]

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It gets better

It gets better

    It’s amazing to look back a year to July 2012. Where were you? 2012 was a tough year for a lot of people. I was going through a very rough time of healing and post-traumatic stress which felt like my mind collapsed and fragmented into a million little pieces. I travelled to the […]

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Top bondage workshop in South Africa... it's more than just knots

Top bondage workshop in South Africa… it’s more than just knots

Hello Beautiful Creature! It’s official! I’ve been to the best Bondage workshop in South Africa courtesy of Different Strokes. They’ve just run a Basic, Intermediate and Advanced course in bondage over the last three months. I loved it so much I just had to share with you! Different Strokes will be holding their Basic Bondage […]

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Kinky Ladies Munch

Kinky Ladies Munch

Kinky chicks, collared slaves and pastries! S&M feminism at its very finest. The first orientation and support group for women in SA was a huge success. The group braved the chill and met in Westdene for a picnic. Our hostess, Tinkerbella, fluttered about in a cloud of camera snaps and luminous cupcakes. I really loved […]

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Rising

Rising

For Anene Booysen When someone touches me; when I have sex, when I play, I ask, I HAVE to ask, is this what I want? Just so that I can give myself the opportunity to say YES, or NO. Every time I do I give the victim inside of me the chance to conquer her […]

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